I spoke to someone very dear to me today who is undergoing treatment for aggressive cancer and we got talking and the discussion of a family situation spilled out of her.

There was all this pain for a situation that she could not do anything about. This situation began decades ago. A situation born out of love that has been a problem because of one person.

I was first of all  honored that she shared with me but I also felt very badly that she has allowed herself to be held ransom for a incredibly beautiful act of love , one that many would not have done for their sibling.

I said to them, did you do it for love? They replied yes.

I said would you do it again ? They tearfully said yes . This happened all on the phone and I thought of one song all the while.

It seems like for the last four or so years I have talked to so many people who have been fighting cancer and other illnesses and family or friend crap starts up that they just cannot pacify. Well, I once again sat here in my chair and said these words.

God calls us to forgive each other our trespasses. But, that’s it.

Once you try to rectify the situation whatever  that situation is,  then we have fulfilled our requirement. If the other person is not in the right place to figurte it out then let that situation go. The issue is theirs.

This person that i am speaking of is fighting aggressive cancer and doing well praise God but still pines for something that may not be attainable. It’s life. That may sound harsh but it’s the reality. The person who has come against them is a very unhappy person for sure.

I said to them before I hung up. To look up this song. How true are theses words. 

I feel bad that people who are fighting for their lives are burdened by crap and nonsense.

People , do not give your emotions away unless you are sure the person will handle them with care.

God Bless Them. Please say a prayer for them God knows who they are.

Danny