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Witnessing Humanity

18 Tuesday Nov 2014

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Everyday that we live if we look we can see the Miracles happening and the love and humanity brought into a brilliant focus by others while doing the works of God.

People giving  to one another for one purpose only to affect a change in someones life. This act is  borne out the one element, love.  

Yes , these people are working to feed their families etc but the Desire to be part of something such as healthcare takes a special calling.

You know,

Thanks to this cancer diagnosis I have been in a position to view many different medical moments. These moments were not just mine I watched my doctors and staff treat so many patients and saw the care, professionalism and compassion that they gave everyone in their care. They have a ministry whether they realize it or not. And, their desire to help people is based out of what I believe is brotherly love.

I have met a few doctors and others along my path that were science based and not God based. My feeling is that they have their right to believe what they choose to. The thing that I would say is this.

What these doctors and staff are doing is still demonstrating  love.  So, I need to follow their thought process to its next progression. Where is love from?

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Archetypal lovers Romeo and Julietportrayed by Frank Dicksee

Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection (“I love my mother”) to pleasure (“I loved that meal”). It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment.[1] It can also be avirtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection—”the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another”.[2] It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one’s self or animals.[3]

Ancient Greeks identified four forms of love: kinship orfamiliarity (in Greek, storge), friendship (philia), sexual and/orromantic desire (eros), and self-emptying or divine love (agape).[4][5] Modern authors have distinguished further varieties of romantic love.[6] Non-Western traditions have also distinguished variants or symbioses of these states.[7] This diversity of uses and meanings combined with the complexity of the feelings involved makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.

Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.[8]

Love may be understood as a function to keep human beings together against menaces and tofacilitate the continuation of the species.[9]

“unconditional selflessness”.[14]

Love is sometimes referred to as an “international language” that overrides cultural and linguistic divisions.[clarification needed]

The children of Adam are limbs of one body
Having been created of one essence.
When the calamity of time afflicts one limb
The other limbs cannot remain at rest.
If you have no sympathy for the troubles of others
You are not worthy to be called by the name of “man”.

Christianity

The Christian understanding is that love comes from God. The love of man and woman—eros in Greek—and the unselfish love of others (agape), are often contrasted as “ascending” and “descending” love, respectively, but are ultimately the same thing.[31]

There are several Greek words for “love” that are regularly referred to in Christian circles.

  • Agape: In the New Testament, agapē is charitable, selfless, altruistic, and unconditional. It is parental love, seen as creating goodness in the world; it is the way God is seen to love humanity, and it is seen as the kind of love that Christians aspire to have for one another.
  • Phileo: Also used in the New Testament, phileo is a human response to something that is found to be delightful. Also known as “brotherly love.”
  • Two other words for love in the Greek language, eros (sexual love) and storge (child-to-parent love), were never used in the New Testament.

Christians believe that to Love God with all your heart, mind, and strength and Love yourneighbor as yourself are the two most important things in life (the greatest commandment of the Jewish Torah, according to Jesus; cf. Gospel of Mark chapter 12, verses 28–34). Saint Augustine summarized this when he wrote “Love God, and do as thou wilt.”

Sacred Love Versus Profane Love (1602–03) by Giovanni Baglione. Intended as an attack on his hated enemy the artist Caravaggio, it shows a boy (hinting at Caravaggio’s homosexuality) on one side, a devil with Caravaggio’s face on the other, and between an angel representing pure, meaning non-erotic, love.

The Apostle Paul glorified love as the most important virtue of all. Describing love in the famous poem in 1 Corinthians, he wrote, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.” (1 Cor. 13:4–7, NIV)

The Apostle John wrote, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” (John 3:16–17, NIV) John also wrote, “Dear friends, let us love one another for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” (1 John 4:7–8, NIV)

Saint Augustine says that one must be able to decipher the difference between love and lust. Lust, according to Saint Augustine, is an overindulgence, but to love and be loved is what he has sought for his entire life. He even says, “I was in love with love.” Finally, he does fall in love and is loved back, by God. Saint Augustine says the only one who can love you truly and fully is God, because love with a human only allows for flaws such as “jealousy, suspicion, fear, anger, and contention.” According to Saint Augustine, to love God is “to attain the peace which is yours.” (Saint Augustine’s Confessions)

Augustine regards the duplex commandment of love in Matthew 22 as the heart of Christian faith and the interpretation of the Bible. After the review of Christian doctrine, Augustine treats the problem of love in terms of use and enjoyment until the end of Book I of De Doctrina Christiana (1.22.21-1.40.44;).[32]

Christian theologians see God as the source of love, which is mirrored in humans and their own loving relationships. Influential Christian theologian C.S. Lewis wrote a book called The Four Loves. Benedict XVI wrote his first encyclical on “God is love“. He said that a human being, created in the image of God, who is love, is able to practice love; to give himself to God and others (agape) and by receiving and experiencing God’s love in contemplation (eros). This life of love, according to him, is the life of the saints such as Teresa of Calcutta and the Blessed Virgin Mary and is the direction Christians take when they believe that God loves them.[31]

In Christianity the practical definition of love is best summarised by St. Thomas Aquinas, who defined love as “to will the good of another,” or to desire for another to succeed.[12] This is the explanation of the Christian need to love others, including their enemies. As Thomas Aquinas explains, Christian love is motivated by the need to see others succeed in life, to be good people.

Judaism

In Hebrew, Ahava is the most commonly used term for both interpersonal love and love between God and God’s creations. Chesed, often translated as loving-kindness, is used to describe many forms of love between human beings.

The commandment to love other people is given in the Torah, which states, “Love your neighbor like yourself” (Leviticus 19:18). The Torah’s commandment to love God “with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your might” (Deuteronomy 6:5) is taken by the Mishnah (a central text of the Jewish oral law) to refer to good deeds, willingness to sacrifice one’s life rather than commit certain serious transgressions, willingness to sacrifice all of one’s possessions, and being grateful to the Lord despite adversity (tractate Berachoth 9:5). Rabbinic literature differs as to how this love can be developed, e.g., by contemplating divine deeds or witnessing the marvels of nature. As for love between marital partners, this is deemed an essential ingredient to life: “See life with the wife you love” (Ecclesiastes 9:9). The biblical bookSong of Solomon is considered a romantically phrased metaphor of love between God and his people, but in its plain reading, reads like a love song. The 20th-century Rabbi Eliyahu Eliezer Dessler is frequently quoted as defining love from the Jewish point of view as “giving without expecting to take” (from his Michtav me-Eliyahu, Vol. 1).

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Okay, we just read this huge description of love and it boils down to this.

It’s very simple God is the divine creator of all , that is why no one can comprehend loves power it’s strength , Love makes us strong, love makes us weak, love makes us humans who feel and care for others.

Love is,

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=B8xpEmGjivs

There is nothing that LOVE cannot do!

God Bless You,

Danny

Because we all need to laugh.

16 Sunday Nov 2014

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Life is what it is as the old saying goes.

Amidst the sorrow and the difficulties is always the joy. Yes, there is also joy in the suffering as well if we can see the good that comes from the suffering.

The Laughter in my life allows the suffering to be lessened. My wife and I had  dinner with friends the other night and we were discussing what the elements were to having a peaceful Spirit. At peace with this life. We all have stuff going on. I admit that my peace was given by God, I take no credit for it. But I said that laughter is a big part of the peace that we feel. Laughter is healing to the body, mind and Spirit.

SO, remember to laugh everyday whether it be with a friend, something you read ,hear or watch. It is important to seek things that bring balance and healing to our lives. Laughter releases tension stress and anxiety Amen. 🙂

 

Please pray from Anne K, Jenn C. , Paul S., Teddy, Maria C.,  and their families and all of our special intentions we pray to the Lord.

 

God Bless You,

Danny

Check out these links. For a few good laughs. 🙂

 

Very funny

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=xQ39WeJpDLQ

 

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=bVLOjBSQ-G0

 

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=uVqBzP0xdKk 

 

 

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A Four Letter Word…. Rely

15 Saturday Nov 2014

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You know there are many 4 letter words, love, hope and rely are just a few. 🙂

I would like to speak about the word rely today.

  1. depend on with full trust or confidence.
    “I know I can rely on your discretion”
    synonyms: depend on, count on, bank on, place reliance on, reckon on; More

    • be dependent on.
      “the charity has to rely entirely on public donations”
      synonyms: be dependent on,depend on,be unable to manage without

      “we rely on government funding”

I touched on this subject a few weeks back and I guess today is the day to revisit this topic.

From the minute that we are conceived we begin to rely on our first human being our moms. Our futures are in their hands. They hold our lives in their hands.

We then rely on our moms and dads and their families if necessary to help to protect us ,raise us and help to gives us the guidance and support to find out who we are in so many ways.

We rely on our teachers, houses of worship, our friends and those that God brings our way to teach us valuable life lessons. There are other individuals in our lives periodically that are not Heaven sent and challenge us in ways that we do not want.

Nobody wants these people in their lives because of the pain and negativity that they create. The truth is as we grow in faith and become more comfortable and confident in who were are in Christ those people cannot rattle your cage.There is a peace that radiates from us and we donnot speak of these people in a derogatory way, we just let it go. So, in essence these people teach us a valuable lesson. They are necessary in our Spiritual growth towards Heaven.

I need thee oh I need thee.

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=T3wSbLa2uGg

When I was diagnosed with terminal cancer 2 years and 8 months ago, I for the first time learned the meaning of the word rely. I relied on everyone for everything. I could not feed myself, nor did I care to eat. I knew I needed to take meds but was too tired to worry about them. I was fading quickly and just wanted to sleep and just prayed with a very soft voice to God saying , God how am I going to take care of my family ? What am I going to do? As I said before I was too tired and too weak to scream out in despair. But my reliance on God allowed Jesus Christ to answer me with my first profound vision of the boat in Galilee.

God does work in mysterious way but they are wonderful and they work to an amazing end if we submit our destiny to him who created us all. God. 🙂

 

I have begun to fulfill yet another milestone in my recovery process that I will get into next week. I am very happy for this .

Matt Maher – Lord, I Need You

God Bless You,

Danny

 

A Quiet Day.

14 Friday Nov 2014

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After Wednesday’s events involving the loss of Maria I woke up and was thinking very reflectively on life. I spent yesterday in prayer and quiet thought.

As I have always said, it is not normal in my mind that a parent should lose their child and in Maria’s case that her kids lost their mom. I feel badly for her family and I feel badly for her children and siblings as well. They are a involved and loving family always helping one another .

This situation has just served as a reminder again of how fragile life really is.

May You Be Blessed by Kate Nowak

This morning as I showered I again offered it up as a reminder of my baptismal waters and continued my prayer. After I got out of the shower I was looking at a painting done by a friend for me back 10 or so years ago and it is beautiful. I studied it as I stood there and thought to myself, each brushstroke on the wall is insignificant on its own but all of the paint strokes together create a work of beauty,

That is the way that we need to address our lives. Some of the brush strokes on my canvas are dark and strained but without those heavier strokes the softer ones would not be noticeable.

When my lifes painting is completed It would be my deepest hope that people will look at it as a beautiful attempt at humanity and love. A painting that helped people who were part of the brush strokes of my life. Amen !

The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

On Day Star( a christian cable station)  look it up 🙂     This  program is called Relections. Just beautiful.

I use this for prayer and it is very peaceful.

 

 

God Bless You !

Danny

 

 

Prayer Request

12 Wednesday Nov 2014

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Prayers For Maria,

In this life and during our journeys we meet so many people. My family has been Blessed with meeting Maria. Like us all she too has had her own lifes struggles.

Maria, is currently laying in the IC unit in a Boston area hospital in the fight for her life. With pneumonia and a heavy infection. Her organs are apparently failing now as well.

So please pray for her healing and if it is God’s will that he take her to himself. Please pray for her children and the entire family they are all so wonderful.

 

Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus, Psalm and Prayer for the Sick (HD)

In Christs name,

Danny

The Time Of Miracles. Ruby

12 Wednesday Nov 2014

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It is the time of Miracles and if we look we will see them.  This link below says it all. God and his Angels and Saints are as always working in our lives.

These stories do not get the air time that they should.

http://www.foodworldnews.com/articles/8489/20141111/pulse-45-minutes-miracle-mom-came-back-life-fatal-caesarian.htm

The next song is one of my mother in law Vera’ s favorite songs. She too was a walking Miracle for 16.5 years beyond her six months to live diagnosis. She had the medical field all scratching their heads but we weren’t , We knew it was God. Amen.

ITS A MIRACLE. BARRY MANILOW

God Bless You,

Danny

Purest Virgin Mary

10 Monday Nov 2014

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I thought that today I would touch on my/ our Blessed Mother as we begin to ready ourselves for the Christmas Season.

The link below the picture is an explanation of Marys life journey once The angel of God appeared to Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!”

And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.

Do I think this happened, you bet your life!

 

Fr. Angelo Homily on The Marys visit to see Elizabeth.

http://www.catholic.org/video/watch.php?v=1068

Hail Mary

Because Mary was a human as are we God called upon her. The difference between Mary and me is that Mary was born very Holy and lived a very clean and loving life.

The virtues are identified as chastity, temperance, charity, diligence,patience, kindness, and humility. Practicing them is said to protect one against temptation from the seven deadly sins, each one having its counterpart. Due to this, they are sometimes referred to as the “contrary virtues”.

 

Thank God Mary was who she was and that she was in control of her free will choices. Thank God Mary was full of Faith and Love for her God. So God could call upon Mary for the most important job ever ! Being a Mother ! The Mother of our Lord and Savior!

Because My Blessed Mother said yes to God even though she did not know all the why’s This choice gave us all the chance to be redeemed and we now are given a chance to say Yes to God in our daily walk and to aspire to do Gods will and to effect a change in this world . We are the salt and light to eachother.

So I would say to each one of you women who are moms or are taking care of and teaching children, thank you! May you all guide your children as Mother Mary did.  With love and grace. Amen.

Purest Virgin Mary

God Bless You,

Danny

 

Whats Going On ?

09 Sunday Nov 2014

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What’s going on ?  That’s my question . We all need to ask ourselves that question. I just arrived home from mass and sat down to look over this blog slated for publish tomorrow and again was amazed at how God and the Holy Spirit were in sinc with my blog and Fathers Homily today with one another, It is not the first time but I still find Gods workings so hard to grasp. God is magnificent.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Jn0D8C2T1B4.

 

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/man-90-arrested-week-feeding-homeless-article-1.2002790

http://guardianlv.com/2014/11/priests-facing-jail-time-for-feeding-the-homeless-in-florida/

 

 

With the Christmas Season coming watch the dirt fly about Christmas tree’s, Christmas anything. I for one do not take offense from someone who is celebrating their faith. And, if they were giving me a blessing ( Merry CHRISTMAS ) from their faith how beautiful is that? I am not offended. I will continue to wear my cross and celebrate my LORD’s birthday of Christmas where God’s only son is born of my Blessed Mother and a wonderful and holy Shepard named Joseph in order to take our sin to the cross for our salvation.

So, as a way of warming up those who are offended by Christmas let me say this. Have a happy, holly, jolly gift buying season.

Larry’s politically correct Christmas.

Because we need to laugh, even though it is a sad situation with what the evil one is trying to do.

To the rest of you out there, I am looking forward to the beautiful Christmas and Advent Season. May the lights of the season , the beautiful nativity story of Jesus bring you much joy and serve as a reminder of the reason of the Season.

THE bottom line is this,

Whatever your faith is embraced it and share it, that is what God would want you to do ,celebrate his love for us.

Advent. Begins Sunday Nov,30 .

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=3wFE0muUzw8

If you wish to Divide or suppress my rights to live my faith ,then I will reject that. IT IS YOUR ISSUE NOT MINE.

Life is about love, understanding and tolerance of one’s faith in their Creator.

Christmas is Christ/Gods ultimate love for us. He came as man with a Divine nature.

God Bless You,

Danny

Beautiful People God In Action. :)

08 Saturday Nov 2014

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You know , I am so sick of the crappy news and when I see something beautiful I think why is this not on all of the news stations playing for a couple of days. We are in dark days right now and need these stories of love and hope to be more celebrated. These are our everyday hero’s. Some of these hero’s are current and some are so large that there lives are becons of love, and Godliness that serve to span time and gives us a bar to attempt to rise to personally.

Pittsburg detective adopts two brothers who have been neglected.

Mother Teresa

Loving God Loving Eachother
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=8UWU0C09ILY

Heartwarming Story

Hero’s

The Irena Sender  Story

She risked her life to save over 2500 children from extermination.

Irena Sender The Apple Tree

Irena Sender .

 

God Bless You,

Danny

It Matters, Its Beautiful, We Are Forever Connected. Amen.

06 Thursday Nov 2014

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Today, I was thinking of some of my friends that I have lost due to cancer, drugs and accidents when I was young.

I remember them all in prayer to this day because I loved them. These kids that I met  were very young and most of them did not have what I had as a young kid. Two parents, a lot of love and parents who were on the ball watching their movements.

You know, when we love someone or something like our pets and become seperated by death we feel the personal loss in our lives but the joy of that love and what they meant to us never leaves or dies. God would never give us something like love and make it so that it ends. God is love so that is impossible. We are merely 1 breathe and heartbeat to where they are. I believe we will be united with all of our loved ones and friends someday that includes our little furry friends too. That’s my belief anyway. 🙂

Josh Gorman to where you are.

The list that I will put down below  are a few that died young friends that i have lost.

Buffy B. She had a cough that was masking cancer and she passed away in highschool. Buffy  was a sweet heart.

Frank N. great kid who ended up contracting aides and passed away  I guess he was in his early 20’s.

Johnny got mixed up with drugs and took a heart attack from the use of cocaine.

Kelly U. was 30 years old and was ironing her nurses uniform and dropped dead of a sudden heart attack. She had an undetected heart problem.

My brother had two friends who thumbed a ride to get home from a party on night and the person who was driving and picked them up  saw a police car and decided to speed away from them and went off of the mystic valley parkway and my brothers friends were killed.

My youngest brother had a very good friend who came to visit my brother he acted normal but gave my brother a few of his small prized possessions and was acting like he was fine. He said goodbye. Later that day he was found dead at Walden Pond from a self inflicted gun shot wound. So sad.

A young neighborhood friend  Bobby Mc. when college age went to a college party in Cambridge and went out onto the fire escape to get a beer out of the cooler and slipped on the ice Bobby fell 4-5 stories to his death.

We all no matter what generation we are from  have had to face these terrible losses. Thats why when we see someone struggling in our lives  we need to reach out to them and let them know that they count and that we loved them. It’s so hard to see anothers pain but speak the words of your heart. It really hurt my younger brother when his friend did this desperate act.

This list could go on if I think longer and harder but, I do not have to go through that process. I pray for everyone and their needs.

I was born with a gift of getting along, I will call it. Different groups, different people do not bother me. For example in my school years, I  could jell with the so called nerds, jocks and rats if need be. My upbringing was such that we were not to engage and do things to people by word or action that was hurtful . We defended ourselves when we needed to in order to defend ourselves from bodily harm.

My parents always said sticks and stones may break your bones but names will never hurt you. You know we as kids deal with kids who sometimes do not have the life skills and say whatever stupid hurtful thought is in their mouths .

The bottom  lines is this in my opinion, life is too short to harm each other. The friends that I lost early on were kind people which only made their passing so much more difficult.

You know, when I was younger all the kids on my bus were great, they were all scared about growing up and the kids that were the bullies were the most frightened of them all. They had an identity crisis and felt the need to pick on the quiet kids. It seemed like every year that I sat beside another kid who got picked on and road shot gun beside them to protect these innocent kids. You know one of my favorite memories of school was the fact that I could walk down the hall with anyone and sit at any table for lunch. Isn’t that what God wants anyway? What also helped me was the fact that my older brother was at the same school and he did not take the bus but they all knew that I was Ril’ s brother so I had an invisible shield around me and i had my ability to charm a snake if necessary. Lol 🙂

Growing up was hard for us all, but I had a beautiful family life with God and I was safe. God gave me a large group of friends that were only a phone call away. I have looked back over the years and really believe that I was in my friends lives that passed for a specific reason. i brought stability, I was grounded and would say to them I would not do this or do that. I know my mom talked to more than one of them and my dad would try not to step on toes and guide them as well.

I thank my friends all of them but am remembering the ones that have passed because after 30 years I still carry them with me daily and feel called to pray for them. I still thank them for being such great friends.

This ( song)was one of the first songs of its type that came out during this time in my life and was a massive hit!  So, for all of those friends that are gone, this is for you thanks for the memories 🙂

This is another artist that passed too soon. I think alcohol and drugs are truely a terrible thing if in the hands of a person who is lost, hurting and does not feel like they are loved and fit into society.

Queen – Bohemian Rhapsody (Official Video)

 

The loss of anyone dear is difficult. My mom always said , you love big, you loose big. I will say this I am so happy for their love while they were here. I think for the most part I have had mainly healthy and authentic relationships with the people I call friends. No one is perfect but they have been sincere in who they have been to me. So, I thank God for each one.

It’ll see you again my friend.

God Bless,

Danny

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